Feminism ( I’am a bad feminist )

What is feminism ? Feminism is taking stand for yourself as a girl and working on the basis of equality , fighting for your rights and choosing what is right for the females and supporting other women . This is what feminism means in simple words . Are you a feminist ? Can we always follow the rules of feminism ? Does everyone who speaks about feminism follow it ? Multiple question to be asked to yourself . Does society accept feminism ? Or again They judge us into bad women every girl before marriage is a feminist and after marriage a bad feminist according to feminism we are supposed to be independent woman and get equal rights , but is this something that really happened ? NO after marriage the society has expectations from us and how much ever we blame the society at the end we try to fit well in societies view , waiting for your husband to come and have food together even though you were very hungry four hours back , but what do we do WAIT , for what ? so that the in-laws feel good , so now where is your feminism ? after getting your first salary after marriage should be given to the husband or you are supposed to spend it with his permission. why ? Hard work shall be done by us at the workplace and permission shall be taken for spending our reward , Now where is your feminism ? I’m not saying all are bad feminist some women are lucky to follow all the rules and are appreciated at home but at the same time not all are this privileged . There are so many places where women are still mistreated. Why? Don’t women have feelings can’t we respect all the women all around the world despite of knowing them or not knowing them . After all everyoe is a human and made by one ! Then why so much of inequality ? can’t we support them ? According to the society wearing short clothes is provoking man , then small babies who are not even a year old raped ? Why even the women wearing saree and burkha get raped ? What is revealing in them now ? “Screaming with tears in their eyes , waiting for someone to help them , someone who could save them from the wild animals cage ! Little did their body ache from every corner , blood dripping from every curve that was once appreciated . The screams can still be heard while reading their sad stories . Now why is the society quite now ? India got independent 74 years back Do you really think we are independent? How can someone call this is an independent country where women are not even respected and rapped in bright day light infront of the society . The real women is the one who survived from rape , she was the goddess seeking justice , not sympathy. Bravely facing the ruthless community, she fought – fought like a warrior. Women are not what happened to them . They are what they choose to be . In some house if the child makes courage and tells her loved one they just be like “Don’t tell anyone he might go to jail” says the most trusted ones . Why are we always made to keep quite about the thing we go through ? Why are women always blamed ? Can’t men keep their hands to them self , which might make girl feel safer ! Why do we have to face this ? Will women ever get justice ? Let’s stand up for every tiny soul that has been lost because of rape . I know taking stand won’t make a huge difference but atleast we will be proud that we atleast stood for them and tired our level best .😩😭

“To all the little girls who are watching this, never doubt that you are valuable and powerful, and deserving of every chance and opportunity in the world to pursue and achieve your own dreams.”


 “Rape is one of the most terrible crimes on earth and it happens every few minutes”.

 ”I can explain myself: If you want to be safe, walk in the middle of the street.”

“I embrace the label of bad feminist because I am human. I am messy. I’m not trying to be an example. I am not trying to be perfect. I am not trying to say I have all the answers. I am not trying to say I’m right. I am just trying — trying to support what I believe in, trying to do some good in this world, trying to make some noise with my writing while also being myself.”

Courage is grace under pressure!

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